Was talking to some new friends how young i was and hey.. both guessed that i was in my late 20s. Wooooo Weeeeeee.... either they were trying to be polite or alcohol has become a fountain of youth.
Anyway, that made me think about one fundamental theory i had in my 20s then about people we know/come across/play marbles with/kissed/fought with/dance with............ Here is how it goes.
1/3 of the people we know or know us will always love/accept/accomodate and react generally positive towards us regardless of what we do.
1/3 of the people we know basically dun care what we do and are basically neutral towards us in spite of how we try to impress.
1/3 of the people we know or know us will always bitch/dislike/talk down and generally react negatively against us no matter how we try to manage their perceptions.
Where do you wanna focus your life energies on?. Think About it.
No Task in life occurs under ideal or perfect circumstances, everything and i mean EVERYTHING has to done under less then ideal circumstances. Wait for the circumstances to fall in place, and you will do nothing!
Carpe Diem, Memento Mori! (seize the day, remember we are mortal)
4 comments:
Hi Xiaoqiang,
That's a good reminder of where it is fruitful (and meaningful) to focus our energies on (More cleverly, you didn't even point it out explicitly to us ;) )
hey ms carpe diem, rhanks.... indeed our lives are pretty much shaped by where we focus our energies and perspective.... :)
at this pt I'm kind of not sure abt the shape of my life.... perhaps I dun know where i'm focusing my energy now.....
hey chantel, tks for dropping by....interesting i always had the impression that you were someone who more or less knew what you were doing....:)
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